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икони цениAt long last I’ve put up a blog for me and Rosa to talk about our lives and share a bit more personal items. It will be an effort to keep things up for a while; I’ve never done so much one-handed typing before!
Anyways, when you get a chance head over and check out The Nerad Family!Comments Off | Catergorized: family
A bit belated but Happy Thanksgiving to everyone from me and Rosa and, especially, Ainara!
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A couple nights ago we tried letting Ainara cry herself to sleep. In the course of 15 minutes she cried at every pitch and volume her little vocal chords could manage, and I began to discern something curious. Without her even knowing, I could start playing Battleship with my daughter. Or, at least, she could start trying to sink my battleships…
In Battleship you take two coordinates, X and Y, and guess where the ships are. Ainara’s crying modulates pitch (think musical scale) and volume (in too many decibels). Using pitch and volume for X and Y I could start playing. It would pass the time!
But given how little sleep we’ve gotten, I’d say she already sunk our Battleship…Comments Off | Catergorized: games geek kids
Soon enough I’ll be able to blog in my regular-irregular schedule (but at least post some stuff). In the meantime, here are more pictures from September, including the parents visit from Spain and tons of pictures of Ainara!1 Comment | Catergorized: family kids life photos san francisco
I’ve finally found some time to post a gallery of pictures of Ainara’s birthday and homecoming. Enjoy!Comments Off | Catergorized: family kids photos
Ainara Maria Susan Nerad-CanetPlease allow me to introduce you to Ainara. Mother and daughter are doing well after the birth. Ainara has a touch of red hair and a healthy set of lungs and it’s a cliché, but she’s just the cutest little thing. She was born at 7:41PM on the 15th at 7lbs 7ounces and 20 3/4 inches. From the moment Rosa broke her water to birth was 19.5 hours, with only the last hour being the pushing.
For those curious, her name is Basque for the bird we call a swallow in English. Maria is for Rosa (the mother of Ainara whose middle name is Maria) and Rosa’s own mother, who is also named Rosa Maria. Susan is my Mom’s name. We decided to do the family name in the Spanish fashion, where the father’s surname goes first, followed by the mother’s.
We’re exhausted but exhilarated. More to follow as we’re even able to come up for air!8 Comments | Catergorized: kids life
Though it’s not an official Memorial Day, it is September 11th. Looking back at my posts from 10 years ago (I had barely started this site) I remember how anguished I was, yet how temporarily unified we were as a people. Now I wonder if the only thing unifying us is that that day sucked and that it changed everything. Aside from that it seems we barely have anything to show for it. We’re polarized like I can’t even remember. We have airport security that’s more show than security. Our taxes, better spent at home, have been used to fund two wars abroad (one of them under false pretenses). We’ve strained the economy to the point they are saying it’s as bad as the Great Depression (though I think the Depression was much worse). Has anything, one single thing, gotten better? It seems the answer, for America, is no.
So on to more positive musings. My wife, Rosa, is Catalan and today is the National Day of Catalonia. It’s also the due date of our first child, though she’s being shy and hasn’t graced us with her presence. Soon! Finally, Rosa’s parents are visiting for the birth (their first time out of Spain) and today is their 40th wedding anniversary. We’re all having a good time tooling around San Francisco (slowly, on account of a giant bubble on Rosa’s belly) and we’re looking forward to having the Little Monkey and relaxing, as a family.
These are the memories I would rather have: watching my parents-in-law touch the Pacific for the first time, watching my wife’s belly move when the baby moves, seeing my family on Skype which cuts the distance from them to me, seeing my friends do well and prosper. Let’s remember the events of 10 years ago, but let’s also find a way to move forward in a way that increases life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. After all, that’s the promise of America.Comments Off | Catergorized: family kids life thoughts
Any day now…I know I haven’t written in a long while. I have been meaning to post all kinds of stuff but I’ve put it off; I am in anticipation of the arrival of our Little Monkey. Anticipation and not a little bit of denial. I know she’s coming, and soon, but I keep moving through my life like it’s the same as it ever was. I think I’m doing that because I know, deep inside, that soon enough it will never be the same again.
September 11th is the due date, but we’ve been full term for a while now. Tomorrow Rosa’s parents arrive. Them coming is a huge deal since they’ve never visited Rosa abroad. In fact, aside from her Father briefly leaving the country when it looked like there would be a coup d’état, they’ve never left Spain. I am excited to see them, though, and I’ve been reasonably seriously studying my Catalan in preparation. No us preoccupeu, ja veureu com tots anirá bé!
So, until further notice, I hope you’ll forgive me if most new posts deal with the foremost thought on my mind: the Little Monkey. I’ll try to keep posting as often as possible to keep those of you interested in the loop. For anyone else, please be patient and we’ll get back to the usual rants against whatever frustrates me the most in the moment as soon as it comes dominant again!Comments Off | Catergorized: kids life
иконографияКартиниEvery day here at home has been like Christmas for the past week. Stuff is arriving everyday for the Little Monkey. All these things with foreign sounding names to me: pac-n-play, swaddling… It is official, the kid now has more stuff than I do. The only place I dominate is my movie and book collections, and she’s already acquiring several of those.
At one point in my life the thought of this baby invasion was overwhelming yet now that I’m here it’s not bad. Seriously, it’s like Christmas. I wake up in the middle of the night anticipating meeting this little creature. I come home and open boxes and try to figure out how to put them all together. I wonder, “Will she like this?” I feel this family closeness that comes only from family. Being a little boy and helping Mom make cookies for Christmas. My brother and I waking up hours before we were allowed to open gifts and quivering the hours until we were allowed to wake up Mom and Dad to open them. Watching my young sister’s amazement at a real toy from Santa Claus.
All of this, fresh as when I was little myself, and so much more down the road.
Amazing.Comments Off | Catergorized: family kids memories
The Future?As time gets closer to our child being born I can’t help what sort of person she’ll be. What will her interests be? Will she be interested in science, music, writing, culture or working-her-ass-off? Maybe none of the above or all? I don’t know and I guess I’ll just have to be patient and find out at about the pace she finds out herself. I do hope she picks up at least some of the interests Rosa and I have like language and travel, and for some perverse reason I hope she really like motorcycles.
It’s funny because I only started riding myself about four years ago, and even though in that time I’ve hardly been able to do any proper distance traveling, I’ve loved it. I look forward every morning, rain or shine, to riding in to work and riding home. On the few times I get to ride out somewhere else, somewhere new, I’m like a kid inside. I would love that the Little Monkey get to know that feeling, too. Of course she might discover it in another way, like horses (which I hear is very popular with girls), but I hope its motorcycles.Comments Off | Catergorized: kids motorcycle